106 Candles
Published Sept. 9, 2005, in the Waukesha Freeman
Story by Matthew Webber
WAUKESHA - Rose Vogel doesn't look a day over 100.
But the Virginia Health and Rehabilitation Center's oldest resident turned 106 on Thursday, surrounded by family, friends, birthday cake and balloons.
"I can't be that old!" joked Vogel, before almost 100 people sang "Happy Birthday" to her. "It's nice they think of a person who is over 100 years old."
Some residents and staff joined the birthday girl in shedding tears both happy and sad. Everyone who knows Vogel said they were blessed for another day with her. But Vogel's late husband, Carl, was not there to share their joy.
Vogel credited her long life to a lifetime of hard work. "And I had a wonderful husband," she added, tears forming in her eyes. "We always called each other 'sweetheart.'"
Vogel said she planned to spend the day like any other, because "I take what comes, and that's all you can do."
While she admitted she was too nervous to share any stories or memories about growing up, her friends were quick to share their recollections.
"Rose is one of the gentlest, most loving people I have ever met," said activity assistant Elisa Morales, who turned 53 - one-half of Vogel's age - Thursday. "We are so privileged she came here, and she graces us with her presence every day. She's a wonderful, wonderful woman, a strong person."
Vogel remains a source of strength, Morales said, as she continues to eat by herself and roll herself around the center. Although Vogel lived in her own house until she was over 100, she has come to view the center as her new home.
"It's wonderful to see her sprout into our little Virginia community," Morales said. "To meet somebody that age is a privilege. I wish I could be as good as she is at her age."
After Vogel accepted plaques signed by Gov. Jim Doyle and Waukesha Mayor Carol Lombardi, her longtime pastor shared his favorite anecdote.
The Rev. Ralph Schultz said that when he visited Vogel's house for the first time, he was shocked by how spotless it was.
"So I said to her, 'Rose, at 103, who helps you clean your house? It's so beautiful and neat.' And she said, 'Oh, I clean it myself.' She said, 'I no longer move fast enough to stir up any dust.'"